You are in a great relation, suddenly with no rhyme or reason he ignores you and you are clueless about why is it so. You keep asking yourself why your boyfriend is ignoring you
The insecurities in your mind surface and you doubt yourself. But before jumping to any conclusions there is something important that you need to understand… men do crazy stuff when they like someone. They will never admit but they might behave pretty irrationally. It’s not always bad. Here are the 5 reasons why your boyfriend might ignore you and what can you do about it
1. You might have hurt him without even knowing
men are not always as tough as they seem. They are vulnerable to get offended(sometimes more easily than women). Men hide it as best as they could but eventually it comes out in other ways, like ignoring you
try to remember if you did something or said something he didn’t like. Maybe you introduced him to an Ex or a male friend that made him jealous
Okay, be the bigger woman here. Just accept your mistake and let him have this one. Believe me, he will respect you even more. You will emerge as the mature one in this situation.
2. He wants to put brakes
when everything is going well, you sometimes try to increase the pace of your relationship and he, does not want to rush it up. He panicked and as a result moved away from you.
It’s important that both of you are on the same page in controlling the pace of your relationship.
If he needs space, give it to him. Sometimes, all he needs is a week or two to get things in order. If he needs to go out on a trip with his buddies, give him your full support.
After that, you need to talk to him about your preferences. Your boyfriend should know you respect his wishes and will impose nothing on him.
The slower you grow, the better you grow. Know each other well enough before deciding. Many people make hasty decisions in the heat of the moment they regret later on. Just don’t be one.
3. He may not be so sure about you
when you dated this guy, you knew in a few weeks that there is a good thing going on between you two. The problem is that he might not feel the same, at least at this moment.
It’s not a secret that men panic when things get serious. Things were all butterflies and rainbows in the beginning when it was hot and heavy. But now suddenly you gave him some reality check it might turn into something other than a fling and well, he loses his nerve
Give him time to cool off. He will come back in a few days. If he doesn’t then maybe you want to reevaluate the whole thing and ask yourself… was he the right one. It’s never a good idea to be with someone who doesn’t feel the same way as you do.
4. it’s game time for him
He may be playing with you. Doing the hard to get thing. You might get intentional late replies from him. Let’s be honest, everyone of us have done this at one point of our lives or another. No one is proud of it but we still did it. A little is sometimes fun but if he keeps doing it then, it’s not good at all.
There is this myth that if you ignore her, she will want you even more. Some guys just take it to the heart and end up ruining everything
Don’t play along or he wins. If he is behaving that way, and you responded in the way he desired, you are only encouraging him.
You should let him know you can play too. You can do that. Just don’t make it about your pride. It has to end, and it’s better if you are the one to do it
Ask yourself, if he is behaving this way early in the relation, do you really want to be with him?
5. Maybe it is over?
It’s so frustrating that most people are not direct about their feelings. Some of us keep dragging things so we can just phase out. It’s not just men, women do it all the time.
If you don’t feel the same, just tell the other person that this is not working the way you intended, no hard feelings. Its not that hard
Believe it or not, it’s a good thing. It’s better to get out nice and early rather than wasting months and eventually a messy breakup. Just move on, he was not the one.
If he is ignoring you, just get in and inquire the cause. It might require digging, but it’s worth it. Or you can just do it the old-fashioned way, talk to him.
Be understanding enough so he can open and tell you the exact reason. Most of the times he might not know he is doing it.
Let him know if he is not into it, he need not waste his time and yours
You deserve the best, never forget that