by datinglord | Feb 16, 2019 | Breaking up
I often hear from wives who feel very insecure and jealous after their husband’s affair. This jealousy is not always limited to just the other woman in the affair. Much to her surprise, the wife can find herself jealous of numerous people, even if she is not...
by datinglord | Feb 16, 2019 | Breaking up
One very common topic in the correspondence that I sometimes get is the topic of closure. Everyone who has been through the aftermath of an affair seems to be seeking it. And this includes both the spouse who cheated and the spouse who was cheated on. Closure can be...
by datinglord | Feb 16, 2019 | Breaking up
I recently heard from a very upset and conflicted wife. She told me, in part: “My husband had an affair about eight months ago. I promised to hold off on a divorce because we have children and I want to keep my family in tact. But, I’m having a hard time...
by datinglord | Feb 16, 2019 | Breaking up
Many wives who find out that their husband is still actively cheating often lists “getting him to stop” as the most important goal. This is true even if the wife has no idea if she wants to save her marriage. Very few people are going to discover cheating...
by datinglord | Feb 16, 2019 | Breaking up
One of the most common problems that I hear about is having repetitive questions about the affair. It’s absolutely normal (and quite understandable) to want to gather all of the information that you possibly can. However, there comes a point where you get tired...
by datinglord | Feb 16, 2019 | Breaking up
Many faithful spouses in an affair will freely admit that they’d like to see their cheating spouse expressing guilt and remorse. There are many reasons for this. First, they want for their spouse to feel many of the negative and hurtful emotions that...
